Untold yet Known Answers #Part - 1

Life was never an easy ride for anyone but then why do you want to complicate it more with things that you yourself don't wish to do then also you do! We all know the fact that if you try to escape fire you might save yourself but not the things that bother you or are your prior stuff that matters a lot to you. What if you try to put off the fire & save the things that values you so much or else take the things along with you while you try to escape fire that you love the most. Obviously here I am not trying to say to take out all materialistic things but the one which is so important to you that no other thing or material can replace. A life partner is always lost like this in such situations where the fire is the troublesome situation that you try to avoid or escape & in this thing you forget about the precious part of your life, let your ego & anger hold you more tightly that make you away from the person who was a person a few days before utmost important one in your life. You get into depression & bad feelings, wrong habits make you go into a different world where you start neglecting things even if you want the things to be fine somehow as your soul inside knows that you are somewhere wrong down the line but then why shall I be bothered so much? Let the other one come up to me to apologise. This is where we do the biggest mistake! An apology is not just a word SORRY, it has a meaning behind that okay may be I or the situation is wrong, may be the things aren't working properly but then I care enough for the relation to sustain & survive till last as we promised & it can be fulfilled only when both of us stay together, repair all the destructed parts of our life & re-build it again strong like before. Letting go & Escapism is something completely different. Never mix up that too. Misunderstandings & problems do happen, but escapism is the sign of a Coward & facing it up is the sign of Strength. Things can always be fine after a bad shake of life but only if you take up a stand for it, sitting quietly, ruining yourself & burning in anger will never be helpful to anyone. That is a self destruction that we do self which will lead no where & become the big time reason for our downfall. Joining up hands is not a bad idea because at times its really not that late that you can't put up things back to what they were. Talk about things before it's too late to make things back to what they were. 

You always have a chance in your hand, to take it or miss it is only in your hands.