Life's ~ Intensity

For how long people have been believing over the fact that  INTIMACY  is all about touching each other on physical terms? I guess since the inception of the word maybe!  If you go with the meanings then sexual intercourse will just be a small partial meaning to INTIMACY and not on a whole. INTIMACY means a close bonding or relationship that only physical involvement alone can't justify.  And if someone still believes that its all about touching and feeling each other, then yes it is, but its about the soulful touch and feel that matters the most. INTIMACY isn't about people sleeping along with each other! It's about how have been these people paying attention to each others' needs and desires, how morally and emotionally do they stand for each other acting just like a pillar to support and pillow to comfort when tired. Its about the distraction you face everyday because you care for the person who is all day around yo...

Bed is a place where we believe to fall asleep when we are tired, when we need rest. A place that is used for self everyday & night or whenever we want for whatsoever reasons. Most of you might think up how come bed is getting into the important aspect of anyone's life... It is !! It is the most important part of everyone's life. From a baby's cradle to the last stage of life bed has been the biggest shelter to all. Remember when a new born baby comes into life, most of the day is spent on his/her cradle. The loud cry, sweet giggle, innocent smile, playing with small toys, spoiling the bed cover & peaceful sleep.  After growing up from an infant to child we sleep on our beds listening to all the stories - fairytales; etc., on a daily basis, the age where you always want to sleep with your parents because you learn about fearing from ghosts and darkness at night. Coming on to our teenage the sleepless nights of studying, cuddling with friend...

After a long distance, I felt tired... I decided to sit & turn back once to see what is been done. Today, I feel that I have covered a lot though left so much behind but there's lot more to come & only a few more steps to get my dreams come true & I'm happy for this journey, says an optimistic soul. Today, I feel that I have covered such a long distance & I'm tired now & still there is such a long distance to cover. I'm losing it, won't be able to make up to what I had a plan in mind. I shouldn't have left things behind, I suppose that was better than this, says a pessimistic body. The basic concept of an Optimist & a pessimist revolves around the two symbols of mathematics, i.e.; "+" & "-" respectively. If I explain it with qoutes given by some famous people, they say:   “A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” – Winston Churchill  ...

Synch - Crown: Orange Kiss Effect : Some pictures are just good for the way they are clicked rather than the original ones !! - A random click at my office though the...

Ever thought about the unwanted end to life? Place where only emptiness persists? Memories that only come to haunt you every now & then when you are being alone? Lets part the fantasy lullabies paradise with the original sphere of life! The day I was born, brought in all the happiness to my parents' life because for them I was there world. A pampered child of my family where everyone has loved me a lot, praised me a lot, a pampered child who was been adorable for all. A bright future was the vision of my life!  Yes, I was a good person for my family, my teachers, my friends, my seniors, my mentors, my juniors & every other person who was in my known list. I got my best life where all I got was love & respect from all the sources. I got my dream job, no obstacles in academics, best teachers, best of friends, supportive family, my dream job with a good amount of pay scale. Now after attaining the success of life on professional front I received one more gift...

As all the things in life come with advantage as well as disadvantage, Hopes too are one among those who brings in the essence of good thoughts as well as disheartening realities of life giving you pleasant unpleasant feeling in one shot, hence changing things around you. Hopes are the trees that grow within & around us either by self or by the people in our surrounding. Contrary to dreams but still alike a dream where you expect something that either happens or doesn't. Most of the people live their lives in hopes. The entire life is either spent in fulfilling others hopes from you or else you lead a life by hoping from others. From personal life relations to friends & colleagues to strangers, all are hoping something from you and same is the case with in return from them.  "Why?" Hoping isn't bad but spending your entire life over hopes is foolishness! I keep on listening people blabbering around others that my parents have some ho...

Who didn't wish to have a normal life ? We all did! But the normal life was never meant to be normal to any. A life that isn't having disturbances was never a normal life for anyone else you could never had a life where emotions, fun & problems were missing.  Someday you will understand that we both were right at our own places just accepting the fact was the trouble both for you & me. Someday it had to rain but only because it has to but sometimes the pain inside you makes such a thing happen as even the nature can't see someone being in so desperate pain hidden inside the broken heart, the lying smile & excuses made are unbearable to tackle at times inside. Its a battle where no body wins ever because the perspective to see a normal life for all varies, the parameters aren't the same for all.  Someday you will understand that it was easier to do & accept the wrong things, wrong statements, following the wrong path & tough to stick t...

I saw the blue sky turning into grey & then to black Thundering voice with sparkling light all above Just watching up above & a drop falls on my cheek It was the colourless water droplet when I realized The rains are back and so are the raining umbrellas The wet wet season has arrived with reflecting colours The colours of colourful umbrellas & not the colours The umbrellas are now there for all the people The one who hate & the one who love monsoons The joy of tiny tots who want to run out from home Taking their colourful small umbrellas out & dancing Where the lovers & strangers come down under one Yes! it is the Season of umbrellas all around for us Some dull some bright some colourful some unique The beautiful roof to remain away from getting wet The way of seeking shelter & knowing a stranger For walking more closely along with your loved ones Even though some use these umbrellas in sunny days But the craze of carrying an umbrella during the...

To the people who judge a girl over their dressing sense are the ones who should question themselves before commenting about any other person. Everyone has their style of living & their world is too different from other people. So how would it matter anyhow to you ? The judgements made on someone's character through dressing sense or making fun of anyone who has a different style statement isn't really a great thing that people think. By doing such things you yourself show how low standards do you have inherited inside you... Okay now virginity of a girl becomes a big time question for many or shall say for almost all. So do you have asked your son or husband or would - be - spouse about the same thing? If the answer is no or if you yourself aren't a virgin then how you ask about a girl's morality? Why you want to know about her personal life when you yourself aren't suitable enough? Sad for the rape victims because their life somehow collapses becaus...

I wake up once in my life, Yes only once in my life when I was given birth by my mother & my eyes were opened wide watching everyone & everything around me as all was new for me because I have just entered to a world of light from a dark world. Here I got the chance of viewing everything through my eyes, listening everything clear through my ears, smell the fragrance through my nose, touch & feel things through my hands. This was the phase where I could just see all new things awaiting for me to go, run & catch all these opportunities of exploring things. That was the time of my childhood where my world was something that I longed for where everything was according to me. Those were the days of happiness where things were in our hands, free minds, free souls, away from almost all responsibilities of life, it was only "my life, my rules".  Then gradually time passed by & we started growing up. Life was no more free, responsibilities started making u...

She was the girl who had many people in her life but had only one for the designation of highest priority in her life & it wasn't any human nor animals or plants even after she cared for them a lot & loved them much more than any one in her life. But this buddy was her all time prior commitment to whom she would go at any point of life to talk, complain, tell her stories, share her actual feelings of happiness & sorrow, the one who she knew will never utter anything that will hurt her, the one who will never unfold her secrets out to anyone, the one whom she trusted so much that she will even pray infront for other's happiness & well being, to take care for the ones whom she loved but were far from her. This was  much more than the love of any lovers, or love with friends or family members. This was a strong bonding, a relationship that no one would understand so easily, people will take it as if its the weirdest or funniest thing. Because this one so...

She was Beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl who kept her head in the Clouds, loved above the Stars & Left regret beneath the Earth she walked on. - Robert M. Drake Well, I guess the title is apt enough to make people understand about what is gonna be discussed about. The story of a Dream Girl isn't the one whom you dream of about. No! Not a girl who should be beautiful or attractive to all by face or looks, not the one who is royal or famous, nope! She should be the one whom people should admire for her work, her way of viewing things, her care & tenderness, her love, her way of dreaming & believing in things, they way she makes all impossibles to be the possible ones, the follower of humankind & love for all, who is the one with the power of uniting & not dividing, who knows it better than you what is good for you & knows all of you & your flaws still accepts you in her life the way you are! The ultimate ideal whom one should desire to fo...

How does things change us when we get into the correct hands is how love can be described. How one person who was always been bothered for how he looks, his perfection in comparison to others just goes out of his mind when he meets a person who is opposite in all mannerisms but yet founds her to be the one he would like to stay together for the rest of his life. People who say that love is blind, lemme correct you that love was never blind because here you don't need to see anything, just follow the feelings & you are there where you were supposed to be. If I begin using quotes here to explain about love & its facts then I guess this will turn out to be a post of almost quotations. To make it clear & simple I shall say this is one among those miracles that happens to some & these miracles will turn your story to something that you have never expected for but readily accepted it with utmost happiness in your life. Coming on to the theme of this picture which sh...

Actually I have always been worried for one major issue in life when I find anyone saying that they dislike rain where my reaction to those people are how could you? But today when I have the answer for this issue I understood that yes the rich people have more tensions & worries because of rain that will harm them or their earned money in any manner whereas people from middle class or lower class society will not be worried much from rain. Now before anyone takes it in a wrong mannerism let me clear it out that here status isn't being pointed out in any manner. My point here is people mostly forget that life is to be enjoyed & not to stay at shelters away from natural environment. We all know that when it rains people are afraid that they will get wet, their money & other stuff that they are carrying along will get wet or ruined in any regard, health issues & so on but then Dude you have to learn how to enjoy life, getting wet in rain won't harm you so mu...

Travelling is always a fun for people. For a person like me atleast I am among the one's who once let out of home will try to go out & travel for long hours without the willingness of returning back to home so easily. Enjoying the new places around, clicking almost everything from minute to huge objects or things or places around that is somewhat of my interest, trying to go to all the best places in a day so as to cover a huge part of the location without any regret of leaving a place that was in my wishlist, enjoying nature & the new environment with a little fear & lot of curiosity within to go there -n- here, exploring every bit to know & understand the place & falling for the scenic beauty with its light touch of love making it almost impossible to leave the place easily because at times some places get inside your heart & mind that the connection is not that easy to break. But then when we return my mind still dreams about running more & mor...

May be there would be many people just like me who are a Big fan of Robin Sharma's "Who will Cry when You will Die?" but i guess no one would have actually thought of this question that What will you Answer to God's question- "So, How was the Heaven?" Confused of how is God asking us about heaven when we are been told always that after death people go to Heavenly Paradise or to the World of Hell? But we never think about who the hell has seen a life after you die? No body.. No souls come to tell you about their heaven or hell experiences but still we all believe in these statements. If someone asks me about this How & Why do we believe in these statements then I would like to take the dialogue from the movie "Oh My God" where Mithun da mentioned it clearly that these humans who are crazy about God are not God loving people, they are God fearing people! And this is why we all tend to believe that their is a life of heaven or hell after we die ...

Well! These 2 pictures are different although as one talks about religion v/s humanity & the other one talks about poverty v/s rich people! Two different things but yet the logic behind is same : Why is this still happening around ?! People are more bothered for your religion but no one is bothered for the needs of a person. A person who isn't actually acceptable in society the way should be is appreciated by others in different mannerism. The first picture talks about religion where you can let a person get food if hungry only if they are from your community else they will be discriminated for not being a part of you. Where does the humanity goes out at that time? All the religion followers & preachers talk about humanity but they forget that providing someone with food & water is the biggest sign of humanity! The hungry children who are surviving below poverty aren't given food but when some such pictures of true reality is framed on the walls of exhi...

Spreading love & sharing love are 2 different things in life. To spread love means you give you are giving a some people a very important part of your life by giving time to them, being affectionate to them, worried or tensed for them. Giving your time to the loved ones is a complete different scenario. Now when I start talking about shared love its actually something that doesn't exists honestly for anyone. You can't keep your legs on 2 boats at the same time as once you lose your balance from any you will fall undoubtedly. And this is what this picture depicts! You can't be in love with 2 people at the same time. There is always someone whom you love & whom you like! Your confusion will lead you to nowhere at the end. We know this that when 2 people are in love one always loves more than the other. But trying to fit the funda of loving two people at the same time by one is not possible. The thin differentiating line will always remain there. Most of the ...

I have heard this people saying that Once we used to be best of buddies & now we are strangers. Also I have read this many times that I still miss him/her but honestly they don't miss the person but their memories. None of us can forget about the people who just entered our life & left us may be cause of some mistakes we did or they committed or may be they were just their to give a lesson or their time in our life was destined for that limited period only. But then sometimes it happens that we remember these people but they do forget us. Time plays different phases in life. At times you are connected to someone like you can never dispatch & then suddenly tables turn. You become from known to unknown, friend to stranger. Life changes like this. Adapting this isn't an easy task although but sometimes you have to move on accepting a few things & letting it go. You never know how life will turn up ahead. You might meet up with the same faces, same voice in ...

Life was never an easy ride for anyone but then why do you want to complicate it more with things that you yourself don't wish to do then also you do! We all know the fact that if you try to escape fire you might save yourself but not the things that bother you or are your prior stuff that matters a lot to you. What if you try to put off the fire & save the things that values you so much or else take the things along with you while you try to escape fire that you love the most. Obviously here I am not trying to say to take out all materialistic things but the one which is so important to you that no other thing or material can replace. A life partner is always lost like this in such situations where the fire is the troublesome situation that you try to avoid or escape & in this thing you forget about the precious part of your life, let your ego & anger hold you more tightly that make you away from the person who was a person a few days before utmost important one i...