Loving The Unloved


"I LOVE YOU".

These 3 words have a very long lasting impact on everyone of us generally. But generally this doesn't happen with most of us in the case of loving the unloved things!

A very few of us can love the unloved things, secretly in our minds, in our hearts, in our souls. 

Its a bit unfair to love something secretively that you can't show out in the real world but the reality is we are left with not much choices.
Everyone has their set of reasons to feel this. 
How to love something which is really negative for you?
How to love something which has nothing but only dark clouds around it throughout?
How to love something that you know will ruin you everyday but still you cant stop & love this unloved thing?
When you certainly know that this cant be shown to others but yet you believe to keep it with you always, inside you secretively, how long will you be able to maintain this run of reality?

Honestly no one can answer this because what I have heard about love is, it is unconditional! Doesn't matter for whom you fall, for what you fall... what you know is your heart is belonging to something which might not be the right thing for yourself or maybe in eyes of others it might look like a mistake yet you always keep admiring it within, you can't stop yourself from loving it throughout your life!

This can be anything, any habit any person any thing any feeling any emotion; simply anything.

Reality is we as humans have a tendency to fall in for certain things or people who cant be accepted in front of all always yet that is completely our choice of what we choose to love, like, adore, admire, or feel anything that might not be acceptable to others but to us that is our belonging which we cant stay away from.

The feeling of love remains equal in both the cases - something that is supremely beautiful & something that is supremely ugly!

If you love it, then you just love it. There's no reasons to specify your choices...because love is something that is connected to your inner self, your heart, your soul, your mind that you cant keep yourself away from.

This is upto us what we choose to reflect in the world outside & what we don't, yet deep down inside us we know what we want, what we always crave for, what we always want & what we always need!

And as very rightly quoted by NERUDA - 

"I love you as certain dark things are to loved,
in secret, between the shadow & the soul."

It justifies that maybe even if you are dark I love you, maybe even if you are ugly I love you, even if you are not acceptable to the outer world yet I still love you be it in open or in secretive way, i choose to still love you despite of all!

Comments

  1. Avneet Kaur5 August 2020 at 21:31

    Very beautifully explained😊😊

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  2. Romeo8 August 2020 at 16:25

    Love is the most beautiful thing 🥰 😍

    I had my chance too .. n I loved immensely . That's the only love in my life ...the last and the first love .. n never ever wanna love again .... Coz now I have lost that chance n I have to die alone ..

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